Today is not a good day. Voters in Maine, Virginia, and New Jersey have made some choices that are utterly inexplicable to me. Why is there so much hatred? So much fear? Why does the idea of two people who love each other getting married scare some people so much? What the hell does it have to do with you?
Nothing, that’s what. If you truly cared about freedom, you’d be in favor of gay marriage. If you’re opposed to gay marriage, you’re a bigot and a fool. End of story. There is no explanation that you can give that explains your position, because your position is indefensible. As for Virginia’s new governor, maybe some folks who voted for him didn’t really understand his positions on the issues. Well, here’s one little tidbit: he doesn’t think women should work outside the home. Yeah, you heard me. The wimmenz should be taking care of the kiddies and darning socks and cooking dinner for the menfolk. No, I’m not kidding. This guy truly thinks this way. And a majority of Virginia voters elected him.
This is part of why I’m here. Our world doesn’t work the way it should. Sometimes I get sad and have nothing else I can do except express my anger, my disappointment, and my confusion. I truly don’t understand why some people have so much fear of others. Why? Maybe someday I’ll get an answer that makes sense, but I doubt it. The answer is ignorance, wrapped up in religious dogma. And that makes me want to cry. But instead of crying, I’m going to just say it: opposing gay marriage is ignorant hatred. Voting for conservatives is ignorant hatred. And I’m so, so tired of all the ignorant hatred. It’s never going to go away, and that makes me feel hopeless.



I hate to come on here and be all “yo, ditto,” but for lack of a better phrase…
I simply don’t know how to balance my disappointment with other humans with my desire to want to have faith in them generally. It’s a thing.
Yeah, I was feeling pretty deeply sad yesterday, and I don’t know how to have a healthy balance between cynicism and optimism. I want to be optimistic, I really do. But then things happen that make it extraordinarily difficult. Ranting seems to help, though
Seeing my gay, leftist, socialist friend take down my conservative cousin on Facebook cheered me up a little.